The code you have posted, is to update a list item
to update an list item you need to first know, which one to update ....Obviously you know that..but we need the ID of the item to update it
so, while reading i am sure you have a code like this
foreach (XmlNode node in nodes)
{
StringBuilder methodBuilder = new StringBuilder();
string itemID = node.Attributes["ows_ID"].InnerText;
string methodFormat = "<Method ID=\"1\" Cmd=\"Update\">" +
"<Field Name=\"ID\">{1}</Field>" +
and use that ID while building the update XML
Hope i could help . pls repost, if you need more help